I’ve been called a baby killer. Never thought I’d choose #abortion, until I did. And ladies, it was the worst decision I’ve ever made in my life. The trauma it caused my mind, emotions, and spirit I’ll never forget. I wept for days afterwards. It didn’t feel right. It took a lot of self reflection, #wombwellness #healing and confessions of this sin to heal the pains of that #hasty #choice I shared the experience in my first book #LoveOverflow in hopes of giving context to another in this position.

I decided to post it today in celebration of the #RoevWade case being overturned. Our families need resources and options, but that #Murder #Suicide is a truly toxic option that does bruise your soul in my opinion. I released a pregnancy the summer after I finished college. #2003 The guy I was too comfortable with wouldn’t even return my phone calls after I told him I was #preggo I didn’t want to be a #BabyMama but ended up being a #SingleMother almost 20 years later anyway. And to be honest, motherhood for the passed 16.5 years has been one of the greatest gifts of my life. I can’t even imagine life without these seeds. It’s also one of the hardest jobs, but I promise when you tap in to source your village will be revealed and you don’t have to do life alone as a mother. My children are my teachers. There’s wisdom I’m living without right now because I didn’t embrace that teacher that was attempting to come through me in 03. I like to think the soul I released came back to me in my children somehow. But actually, only God knows. 

Still today, I’m celebrating all the ancestors getting ready to touch down without distractions or detours. We’re ready to embrace you. And Most High, if it’s your will to enrich my life with another child in my forties, tell my husband I like #Seamoss smoothies and sushi burritos on the regular!

Midwives, doulas,and birth workers . . . it’s our time to prepare for their arrival. #TheAncestorsAreComing

#EmbraceBirth

#Intactivist

#WriteShareLove

#CuayLife

#Love

#RoevsWade

#Parenting

#Village

#Repent

#DayOfRepentance 

#AmericanWoman

#GodParentsMatter

#YouWontBreakMySoul